Anniversary in Bellevue, Kentucky

It’s hard to believe that Nick and I have already been married a year. As our anniversary was approaching, we discussed not spending a lot of money because we have a few trips planned this summer with the kids that we want to save for. We decided we would get away for a night but do it locally.

We booked a room at the Weller Haus Bed and Breakfast in Bellevue, Ky. We also made dinner reservations for Virgil’s Cafe in Bellevue. As we were planning our evening out we kept joking about our big anniversary being spent in Bellevue, less than 10 minutes from our home. We knew we would have a good time but were both secretly wishing we could go a little farther away.

better front front

It ended up being perfect though. We checked in at the Weller Haus around 5:30 p.m. The inn keeper gave us a tour of the beautiful facility including the breath taking garden. We headed upstairs two our two-room suite. The bedroom, private bathroom and Jacuzzi breakfast room were all amazing.

garden

We headed to dinner at Virgil’s. We were immediately taken to our table and served champagne on the house since they knew it was our anniversary. I will admit I don’t normally like champagne but this was delicious. I ordered the mushroom risotto with a winter salad. Everything was fantastic.

After dinner we headed back to our room to enjoy the Jacuzzi. It was extremely relaxing. We then headed down to the guest kitchen to grab a few drinks and snacks. We also grabbed a movie from their DVD collection. The Weller Haus provided us with chocolate covered strawberries as well. They were fantastic.

We requested that breakfast be served in our bedroom instead of the common dining area. We were able to choose from several items.

breakfast

I probably gained five pounds in that 24 hour period but it was well worth it! It may have only been a few minutes from our home but it really couldn’t have been more perfect.

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Don’t Feel Sorry For Us; We’re Pretty Lucky

Between Joey having Langerhans Cell Histiocytosis, residual pain from the surgery and his PTSD, as well as Andi’s migraines, along with a recent concussion, we often find ourselves visiting the doctor and the hospital. Friends and family constantly make comments to me like “if it wasn’t for bad luck, you guys would have no luck at all,” “life is so unfair,” “you guys can’t catch a break,” “your family has had it rough” and “you must fund your doctor’s vacations.” The thing is though, well other than the last one, I don’t feel like any of that is true.

My son was diagnosed with a life-threatening cancer at 10-years-old. We were told he may never walk again. At 13, he has beaten LCH, runs, walks and rides a bike like a normal kid and even performs in Circus Mojo doing a variety of acts that use his legs. He didn’t die. He can walk. He is funny and caring. I think that is pretty lucky.

joy wheelchair

After surgery in 2012

joey german

2014

 

Andi has suffered from migraines since she was 9 with no real explanation. She will be 16 this month. That sucks but they aren’t caused by epilepsy, a tumor or a serious disease. They are most likely hormonal and will eventually be under control. That is lucky.

Andi has suffered from a concussion since April 19 and has had a heck of a time with it. She was hospitalized for two and a half days, she can only attend half days at school, she is nauseous all the time and definitely doesn’t feel herself. A girl, who was less than five feet from Andi, kicked the soccer ball so hard that when it hit Andi in the face, it knocked her to the ground. She didn’t lose consciousnesses. The pediatrician told us the only thing that would make this concussion worse is if she was knocked unconsciousness. I think the fact that she didn’t is pretty lucky. When neurology admitted her at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital, they told us she could be there two to six days. She wasn’t even there for three full days. That was lucky.

my cutie kids

my cutie kids

She is still dealing with the concussion. It is hard on our family. She can only go to school half days, which requires a lot of juggling. However, we have awesome friends and family who are helping us with that. We are so lucky to have those people in our lives.

We are also lucky to have Cincinnati Children’s Hospital, one of the number one hospitals in the country, 15 minutes from our home. We are lucky to have one of the top two LCH doctors in the country 15 minutes from our home. We are lucky to have one of the best children’s neurology teams in the country 15 minutes from our home. Really, what more could we ask for? Well, maybe for better health insurance or someone to pay our medical bills. Ha!

We’re good. Don’t feel sorry for us. We are pretty lucky!

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