My High School Senior Looks Back on her Four Years

Four years ago, when Andi was an 8th grader scheduling for her senior year, I wrote a post called Transitioning to High School. This inspired Andi to write her own post called Andi’s Version of the High School Transition. I showed her that old post last night and she decided to write an update (I suggest reading the original first by clicking here):

Well my mom’s bloggies, I made it thru. I should have been scared when i wrote that the first time. High school was scary, I probably was scared and just lied. In general, I was afraid of the upperclassmen and what everyone would think of me. I wanted to be cool and popular, unlike myself in middle school. I tried too hard and was intimidated by other girls in my grade and the grades above me.

Beginning of junior year i realized that it didn’t matter what they thought of me and I stopped wearing makeup everyday and trying to look stylish all the time. I learned to love myself more. Now that i am the “headmaster” (as my past self called it) of the school i realize that when I was a freshman the seniors probably didn’t care about what i wore or how i looked bc I sure as heck don’t pay attention to the freshman. I also realized that nobody is going to remember that one day I went to school without makeup and greasy hair. I learned to embrace the way I look. I wish I could tell my freshman self all of these things because she’d probably poop her pants if she knew I don’t wear foundation every day to school, heck sometimes i don’t even wear makeup around the boy I like. When I think about my freshman and sophomore self I don’t hate it, I just wish she didn’t hate herself.

As far as classes go I’m still taking Spanish. I moved all the way to AP, and let me tell you, lamp is not el lampo. Spanish is definitely difficult. I stopped taking journalism after freshman year because I wanted to take other classes & it wasn’t really my forte. If you are sending your child into high school next year I definitely recommend taking regular classes & ignore the pressure for AP, ESPECIALLY regular social studies courses. AP world would be the death of your child. AP English is really no biggy as long as you already understand grammar because they don’t really teach that in AP.

Even though I was annoyed about how worried my ma was about me going to high school, I’m thankful for it because there were times I was happy I was her little princess. 

Yes, I was teary eyed when Andi sent this to me last night. It shows how much she has grown, not just physically but as a person in the last four years. She’s a young woman now. She plans to major in social work at Northern Kentucky University this fall. She might even minor in Spanish…

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The 28 Things I’m Thankful For

Several of my friends have posted what they are thankful for each day in November on Facebook. I have not done that. Instead of posting something random that I come up with each day, I wanted to compile a list on my blog. A list of 28 things I’m thankful for.   And if you can make it to the end, you will discover the surprise contest! They are in no particular order.

1. The Fort Thomas Education Foundation Dance – It was there that I met my wonderful boyfriend Nick.

2. Northern Kentucky University – I received my BA in Journalism and Speech Communication at NKU. Without that degree I would not have had 10 years of experience as a reporter and six years in public relations.

3. The internship I had in college (1996). It was there that I met my current boss and made a life-long connection. I now work a job that I love.

4. The opportunity to work as a reporter for 10 years. That experience allowed me to learn a little bit about everything including construction, the housing market, city ordinances, politics, school budgets and so much more. It is also that experience that helped me learn so many useless facts. But most of all, that experience helped me make hundreds of connections with people who live, lead and work in my community.

5. Holly Hill Children’s Home – I volunteered as a mentor when I was 22-years-old. It opened my eyes to so much. My mentee asked for stuff like pop, deodorant and stamps for Christmas instead of the latest technology or hot item. She just wanted her basic needs met.

6. Outdoors/Seasons – I am thankful to live in an area where we can enjoy the seasons, hike, see waterfalls, run trails with our dog, stay in a cabin in the woods, go tubing, enjoy a large amusement park (Kings Island), play in the leaves, swim, pick berries, play in the snow and enjoy a bon fire.

7. My high school junior and senior English teachers – While other teachers, including my guidance counselor, at my high school were telling me not to even bother applying for college, these two teachers were encouraging me every step of the way.

8. My parents and brothers – My dad and my brother Bryan for teaching me to stand up for myself and to speak my mind. My mom for teaching me the RIGHT way to speak my mind. LOL My brother Ray for teaching me that I don’t always have to stand up for myself because whenever needed, he’ll do it for me.

9. Humor – I sometimes laugh at really inappropriate times. I try to control that. But I am happy to be a person who often finds the humor in things. When there is a choice to laugh or cry, I’m going to pick laughing every time.

10. My daughter’s sense of fashion – My 14-year-old daughter is an expert at hair, makeup and what to wear. And apparently I am clueless so I am thankful I have her to steer me in the right direction. I’m also thankful to be able to watch her grow into a beautiful, young woman.

11. My son – There is not just one thing I can say about Joey. I am thankful he’s in our lives. This could be a blog post in itself but Joey has had many health challenges, even in the womb, throughout his life and I’m just so thankful every day of my life that he is with us.

12. Langerhans Cell Histiocytosis – LCH is the rare disease my almost 12-year-old boy has. Although I wish we had never heard of Histio, it has brought some good things in our lives. I don’t live with anxiety and worry like I used to. I’ve realized that worrying all the time isn’t doing anyone any good. Instead of letting everyone’s problems live rent-free in my head, I choose to live life to the fullest. And to do so with my kids.

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13. Cincinnati Children’s Hospital – We are lucky to live 10 minutes from the hospital. Cincinnati Children’s is the place to be if you have Langerhans Cell Histiocytosis. The oncology department is amazing. It also has one of the best orthopedic departments in the country, which we are grateful for since Joey has had a bone graft of his hip. The pain team has also helped us a great deal. I must mention Dr. Neil Johnson specifically. He diagnosed Joey with LCH after I fought with doctors for over a month trying to find out what was wrong. He has followed us every step of the way for the last 20 months and ensured the best care possible for Joey.

14. Radio station contests – I win a lot. Nick wins a lot. Andi is doing pretty good too. Thanks to radio station contests, I have been able to enjoy many concerts, a trip to Vegas, $1000 in free James Free Jewelry, restaurant and massage gift certificates, being on stage with Jon Bon Jovi, several movie premiers and so much more for FREE.

15. The Walking Dead – This awesome show allows me to bond with Nick and his children from 9-10 p.m. every Sunday (when we are able to watch together) and when we talk about it throughout the week. Nick was dressed as a walker the night I met him.

16. Sharing Holiday Traditions – Nick and his three kids (21, almost 19 and almost 18) joined in our Christmas decorating tradition this year. I was able to give each one their own ornament for the tree. We decorated stockings, ate dinner together and decorated the tree. I am thankful for the opportunity to get know Josh, Jordan and Joel and I look forward to building on those relationships.

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17. Jordan – I am thankful for Jordan’s sense of humor and her ability to make me laugh. I love that she is an individual who doesn’t care what others think of her. She has her own fashion sense and a great attitude toward life. Her work ethic is awesome too. I am thankful that she gives me a glimpse of what life with an older teen girl will be like in a few years.

18. Joel – I am thankful that Joel and I can bond over music, TV shows and movies. His drumming talent blows me away. I love observing him with his friends since they make me crack up laughing. I enjoy joking with him about things I can’t joke with my younger kids about just yet. I love being around him and getting a glimpse of what life with an older teen boy will like in the future.

19. Josh – I love how mysterious he can be at times. I admire how he can quietly sit back and take things in without reacting. I appreciate his love for sports, work ethic and enthusiasm for music. I envy his ability to eat a ton of whatever he wants and never gain a pound.

20. Concerts – Motley Crue, Def Leppard, Kiss, Pat Benatar, Taylor Swift, Bon Jovi, Kelly Clarkson, Scott Wieland, Butch Walker, Indigo Girls… to just name a few. I love music, especially live music. I have been lucky enough to attend at least 50 concerts in my lifetime.

21. My Histio Family – all of the families I have met through fundraisers and online have made this journey easier than it would be without them.

22. The Rusty Griswolds & Taylor Swift’s Video: We’re Never Ever Getting Back Together  – I was dressed in pajamas, as T. Swift, the night I met Nick. He might not have noticed me if I wasn’t dressed like that. It was a costume party. The Rusty Griswalds were playing that night.

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23. My Community – Our community has repeatedly supported us in our fight against Histio and our care for Joey since diagnosis. They have also remembered Andi every step of the way. We are so lucky to have them… even strangers.

24. My Friends – Not only have they supported us in our fight against Histio and our care for Joey, they have provided me with friendship for years. I have to say a special thanks to Jessica Gibula. She has been my rock so many times. So many people have that I hate not to name each one but that would take all day. Friends have helped with fundraising, shooting a Histio video, sitting with me in the hospital, watching Joey and so much more. I value those friends.

25. My nieces, nephews, sister-in-laws, my extended family – They have all supported us through the Histio fight. But that is no surprise since our family has always taken care of each other. I love my nieces and nephews like they are my own, my sister-in-laws like they are sisters I never had. My cousins…. well some of them are my closest friends. I have a pretty awesome family.

26. Nick’s Family – I thought I had a big family until I met Nick’s. They have all welcomed me and my kids as if we have been part of the family for years.

27. My Dog Scout  – She loves me unconditionally. She came in our lives at a time when I really needed her. She has cared for Joey when he has been sick and cuddled with me when I’ve needed it. She really is a family member.

28. My very full life with Nick – We might not be able to afford a fancy car or elaborate trips… but I have a very full life. I have an amazing man who loves me more than anything in the world and I love him. We have five incredible kids in our life. We have a huge, very close-knit family. We have tons of nieces, nephews and little cousins to enjoy. We have great friends. We both have jobs we enjoy, a house we like and neighbors who we love. We share a love for live music, movies, food and family. Yeah, I have a lot to be thankful for.

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Happy Thanksgiving everyone! What are you thankful for?

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Oh, let’s not forget the giveaway!! I have 11 tickets to Boogie Nights that are valid any Friday night through Dec. 20, 2013. This giveaway is going to be fun. Go to the Raising2tweens Facebook page, like the page and then post your best guess as to why I named my dog Scout (Hint: I love to read and work for a library). I will use random.org to pick a winner from those who guess it right. Be sure to post your guess on the Facebook page. Sharing the blog on Facebook or Twitter (@gina5620) and commenting here that you did will get you a BONUS entry. Entries will be accepted until noon on Sunday, Dec. 1.